Hosting a Floral-Themed Friendsgiving

How to Host a Friendsgiving (and Avoid All Family Drama)

Ah, Friendsgiving. It’s like Thanksgiving, but without the judgmental relatives who ask why you’re still single, when you’re getting a “real job,” or if you’re ever going to have kids. It’s a low-key celebration where you gather your favorite people—your chosen family—and enjoy food, drinks, and way too much laughter. The only expectations? Bring a dish, wear something with an elastic waistband, and be ready to dodge the classic Thanksgiving awkwardness. Here’s how to host a Friendsgiving that’ll make you forget all about family pressure and redefine the holiday on your own terms.

Set the Tone: Laid-Back Vibes Only

The first rule of Friendsgiving? Keep it chill. No need for a formal dress code or a perfectly set table with 15 different forks (who even knows what they’re for?). The vibe should be cozy, relaxed, and all about having fun. Tell your friends to wear their comfiest sweaters or even come in pajamas. Set up a casual dining area with throw pillows, blankets, and lots of mood lighting. Candles, fairy lights, and a fun playlist of nostalgic hits are all you need to create a warm, festive atmosphere.

And what about the food? No one should be stuck in the kitchen all day for Friendsgiving—that’s a surefire way to feel more like you’re on duty than your free-spirited self. The beauty of a potluck is that everyone contributes, so you only have to make one dish (and maybe supply the drinks). Friendsgiving is your chance to break free from the traditional Thanksgiving mold, so embrace the chaos of non-cohesive dishes! With a potluck, you’ll get a hodgepodge of dishes, and they might be mismatched – which is just fine.

Temper the Turkey Expectations

Let’s face it—turkeys are stressful. They’re big and intimidating, and there’s always the risk of overcooking. If you’re a turkey pro, go for it! Or, here’s a revolutionary idea: skip the turkey. After all, Friendsgiving is a rebel holiday, so reclaim it by serving whatever you actually want to eat. Pizza? Great. Tacos? Even better. Or try a turkey alternative like roasted chicken or a veggie lasagna. Remember, Friendsgiving is about the food you actually enjoy, not the food you’re supposed to serve.

Centerpiece? More Like Center of Attention

Sure, it’s Friendsgiving, and we’re keeping things casual, but let’s not completely ignore the decor. A great centerpiece will tie the whole event together—and give you a reason to show off your excellent taste. Put your fall color in a festive vase with our Harvest Pumpkin arrangement. It has a subtle autumn aesthetic while being the perfect conversation starter. Plus, it’s in an actual ceramic pumpkin. How cute is that?

If you want to level up your table game, a stunning autumn arrangement like Honey and Spice is a showstopper. It has lush, fall-colored blooms and seasonal greens. It’ll make you feel like a floral designer without the effort.

Friendsgiving is What You Make of It

Friendsgiving is all about relaxing and having a great time with the people you really want to be around. There are no expectations, no stuffy rules, and no awkward family dynamics to navigate: just good food, good drinks, and even better company. And remember, when it comes to hosting the perfect Friendsgiving, it’s less about perfection and more about enjoying the moment—especially when you have fabulous flowers from Allen’s Flower Market on your table. Lean into your relaxed vibe and take advantage of our same-day delivery of flowers and gifts throughout Southern California and nationwide.